Tuesday, April 8, 2008

And then my World stopped....

My husband moved out this weekend. He announced to me about a month ago that he didn't want to be married any longer (it is our 2nd marriage, been together 3 years, married 9 months), he needs to "find himself", he doesn't want to have to answer to anyone, he doesn't want to think, he doesn't want anyone to ask him questions or to have kids around. It's a blur really.

So needless to say, this is the reason I haven't been actively around lately. I am doing okay. I mourned a lot before he even moved out and I was pretty good mentally by the time he moved out. My kids are doing remarkably well and we are a strong family unit and we can survive anything.

Unfortunately, my daughter won't be going to London. It is too much to plan in 8 short weeks, especially now.

Oh he told me this right after he told me to quit my job. So, now I am looking for a job. I have an interview tomorrow, wish me luck!

13 comments:

Holly said...

Oh, I am so sorry! What a tough thing to go through. You're right in that you can survive anything, but that doesn't make it any easier. Good luck with the interview.

Kellan said...

Oh, Sweetie - I am very sorry to hear this. I will keep you and your sweet family in my thoughts and prayers and I will pray that you find a job - a good job that is right for you and that you will love. Take care - Kellan

desirae said...

Oh man.. That stinks.. What a butthead (does it make you feel better if I trashtalk him a little.. No?? Ok, ignore the butthead thing then.) I hope the interview goes well. Really well.. Maybe the trip to London will help you destress some (do you get to go with her?) Maybe you could meet a hot 21 yr old named Pierre.

Valarie said...

Oh my gosh! I am having a hard time trying to find words. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. You are strong. You are woman. Here you ROAR!! You and your children will be in my prayers.

utmomof5 said...

Oh sweetie!! My heart is breaking for you. This must be a very hard time for you. I wish I had words to make it all better but instead I will send you big ((hugs)). I will be thinking of you -- you will survive, it will be hard but you can do it.

Sue said...

I'm so, so sorry. What a hard, awful thing. Hold on to your kids. I hope you get the job (if it's one you want). Hang in there. I'm so sorry.

Cecily R said...

I am so SO sorry. YOur post made my heart hurt for you.

I'm praying you find some peace and a great job you deserve.

Congratulations to your daughter by the way, even if London doesn't work out.

Stacie said...

grrr, I am sorry to hear you are going through this...my heart goes out to you. *hugs*

Mary said...

I am heartbroken for you and the kids. Hope your job interview goes well!

Kareer Woman said...

Oh wow. It's great you have your kids by your side, that will really help.

Bia said...

I have been on vacation and am just now catching up. I am terribly sorry for all that you are going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers. In the meantime, good luck on that interview, and have fun planning your daughter's trip to London. How exciting!

God bless.

Law Student Hot Mama said...

I just wanted to say - that seriously sucks. You should put some superglue on his hand the next time he has to pee . . . that way he'll be sure to "find himself" and not forget where it is, either!

onthegomom said...

Oh my... hot mama.... i about peed myself from laughing so hard!!!